Thoughts are
uncontrollable.
They come and settle
in your mind.
They embed themselves
like relentless ticks, simultaneously sucking your blood while leaving
unsuspecting disease which slowly infiltrates your body over several days or
weeks, sometimes affecting you for years and literally changing the course of
your life.
A single thought can
spark an attitude.
An attitude can
inspire a prolonged mindset.
And that mindset?
That will ultimately
provide you with the lens which you see your world through.
And that’s sometimes
scary.
I’ve often talked to
people who struggle with recurring, destructive thoughts.
And for years, I was
one of those people.
Thoughts so
pervasive, you can’t throw them off.
You feel like you’re
drowning, suffocating in your own body.
And you stopped
believing there’s any other way to live.
They paralyze you,
saying things like:
“You’re going to screw
up, anyway. Why are you even trying?.”
“You think they
actually like you?”
“You’ll never be
beautiful.”
“You’ll always be
alone.”
“This is just my lot
in life.”
“You don’t deserve to
live.”
What if I told you
these were all lies?
What if I told you,
you have the power to change this?
Your brain works a
lot like infrastructure.
Thoughts create
pathways.
The more you think a
thought, the more “worn in” that pathway is, and the quicker you jump to that
same thought the next time you’re faced with a similar situation.
And just like the
roadways, those pathways can actually be changed in your brain.
And also just like
the roadways, sometimes it can take months of you intentionally catching your
thoughts and rerouting them through another channel for them to naturally flow
in the direction you want them to.
I was listening to a
podcast a few weeks ago where someone presented this idea as channel changing.
When you have a negative
thought, you train yourself to immediately change the channel.
You change the
channel to another thought.
And then you choose
to believe that new thought.
I’m not going to lie
to you and say this is easy.
It isn’t.
As humans, we have
this natural tendency to want to wallow in our own pain, to let our sadness wash
over us without even attempting to stop it.
And while that’s not
a bad thing in a situation like the death of a loved one or the end of a
relationship, where it’s necessary to embrace the pain and work through our sadness,
it is a bad thing if that’s our normal, everyday life.
Because frankly,
those thoughts are not life giving.
They are absolutely
the opposite, and they will steal, kill, and destroy any attempt at living a
healthy, happy, productive life.
You don’t have to
settle for destruction.
You have the power to
change your world by changing your thoughts.
Don’t be afraid to say
something to someone around you.
It’s time to change
the channel.